Dating has never been easy, and every era has its own difficulties and demands. Modern dating facts couldn’t be any different. There are some things every person should know, like the rules you need to learn before you play a game. And there are certain pitfalls to avoid too if you are to enjoy and to win it. Anastasiadate.com is here to explain.
The Demands Of Modern Dating Facts
Modern dating can be a true minefield. But you can cross it and get to the other side (enjoying a happy love life) with the help of this mind map. Take these dating facts into account and you will enjoy your dating life much more.
In an era when there is so much potential, it is easy to get caught up in a game where the grass always seems greener on the other side. This is why it is something of an unwritten law that people will date many people at the same time. If you feel like you’ve found the right one for you, you should make your intention to go exclusive known in a clear and explicit manner. Or you should accept the fact she will be seeing/ speaking with other guys too.
People Have Their Own Baggage (And May Not Need Yours)
The truth of the matter is what the older we get, the heavier the baggage we carry. We’re not saying that you should only date younger women (that’s totally up to you), but to find a partner whose baggage you can shoulder. Life partners are not people without emotional baggage; they are people who can help lift some of the weight off their partner. But you should be aware of the fact that most people you date will very likely hate to hear about your issues. They may openly tell you they want “no drama” in their lives. Stay away from those people.
People Will Lie (And So Will You)
Even though the social media have made it easier to track someone and check up on them, people will still lie in order to make a good first impression, or out of insecurity. You will also be tempted to do the same, or fall into the trap of doing it. If you do, at least make sure it’s little white lies, not something major you are being dishonest about.
“Maybe” Is Not An Acceptable Answer
Some people will tell you “maybe” if they are unsure about what they want to do. If you invite a girl out and she is not sure, or if she says “maybe” when you ask her if she’d like to be with you; you’d do well to avoid her. People say “maybe” when they have lukewarm feelings and when they are waiting for a better opportunity, but want to string you along until that comes. Don’t fall into the trap. As we’ve said here at Anastasiadate.com, it’s got to be “Hell Yeah” or it’s not worth your while.
You Need A Dating Dictionary
Dating trends change so much these days, it can be a real struggle to keep up. Terms come and go, dating styles fade and new ones show up, ways to break up appear every 10 minutes and you may find yourself lost in translation. Keep your eyes open if you want to be ahead of the game and not be left looking like a total ignoramus next time you hear of a newly-coined dating term. A dating dictionary is your friend, and at anastasiadate.com we always update ours with the latest dating terms.
The Social Media Are An Illusion
Don’t be fooled by a perfect Facebook profile, an impeccable-looking Instagram account and a life that looks too unreal on social media; it is most probably all a front. The social media show others what we want them to see, they are not a realistic depiction of one’s life. Be aware of this fact and wait until you meet the real person in the flesh in order to draw safe conclusions and not base your opinion on the illusion that are S.M.
Breaking Up Via Message Is A Thing
It is ugly, cruel and impersonal; but breaking up through a message is happening more and more these days. We may think it’s heartless and a disgrace, but we still can’t close our eyes to reality. (Don’t do it, people. Have the dignity to look your partner into the eyes when you end things like real people).
Even though at AnastasiaDate.com we may not necessarily like some of these modern dating facts, we still believe there are ways to deal with them, overcome all obstacles and find the partner we deserve. Be aware and have a better dating experience.